I asked my husband about this. He replied that back then he was trying to get lucky. Typical. But it made me wonder. What if we wives started playing hard to get again? Then I scratched that idea because how much harder to get can one be when you are exhausted from work and raising a family? Not to mention that you may not have even showered that day or for the past two.
Then you may even go in the other direction and try to be the sex vixen but you end up just feeling silly (that stuff only looks good in the movies) and the moment is lost again.
Romance changes as a relationship grows. It goes from being flirty to loving and respectful. Romance can be telling each other please and thank you instead of demanding something from another. Romance can be a quick kiss while waiting for the water to boil. Romance can be a sweet text reminding you to pick up some milk followed by "I love you".
No, romance isn't dead it just morphs into something different. While it is still nice to receive a bouquet of flowers now and then sometimes just cuddling on the couch is even better.
My husband, Jason, goes out of his way to be romantic every once in awhile. Just last weekend while I was at Camp Ondessonk he came to visit me. I was walking down the road from the camp's dining hall and saw a man pushing a stroller and walking with two kids. I was trying to figure out who it was because they were a distance from me. Then it hit me that it was my family. I had no clue they were coming. They were a day early and I was planning or riding home with someone else. I screamed and went running towards them. Now that was romantic but this is even better. They had on, homemade matching Camp O t-shirts. What a wonderful surprise.
|Jason had this picture taken on his cell phone then sent it to me with the text, "Like our shirts?" However, I did not have my phone on me to receive it. I was still surprised by them about ten minutes later!|
It was extremely romantic because Jason and I fell in love as camp counselors. No there wasn't a violin player or a candle light dinner. Instead there was sweaty guy pushing a stroller with two other kids running around. But you know what? I was giddy and he was probably gonna get lucky!